Wednesday, October 26, 2011
Two years old!
My little baby turns two today! I just love his chubby little legs and his little fat fingers. He has the biggest smile and most adorable baby chuckle. He loves to cuddle and give butterfly kisses and loves being the center of attention. He brings such joy to my life. We love you Grant!
Tuesday, October 25, 2011
Fabulous dresses!
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| Gondola |
P.S. their swimsuits are fabulous too! I just got this one last summer and it is perfect for hiding that post-baby belly!
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| Pietra |
Fabulous dresses!
2011-10-25T12:00:00-04:00
Cari
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Sunday, October 23, 2011
Halloween Costume Ideas
Two years ago I made the boys' Halloween costumes for the first time, Thing 1 & Thing 2 and The Cat in the Hat. I have to say they turned out better than I expected and I whipped them up just before Grant was born. I thought they were cute, but I was surprised at how much attention they got wearing them!
I'm not much of a dresser-upper, but this site has two ideas I think would be fun for me:
I'm being lazy this year, they're going to be marathon runners. I'm not feeling up to the challenge of costume creating this year with everything going on, but here are a few ideas I'd love make costumes on in the future...
The Three Stooges
The Wizard of Oz
I'm not much of a dresser-upper, but this site has two ideas I think would be fun for me:
Rosie the Riveter via Miss Drea
Mary Poppins via Keiko Lynn
Here are a few other cute ideas on
What are your favorite Halloween costumes?
*Link up your ideas at Babblin' Brooke!
*Link up your ideas at Babblin' Brooke!
Thursday, October 20, 2011
A day in the life, Part 3: Teaching small children...
The thing I struggle with most as a homeschooling mom is balancing my time between three demanding children (all born in three years) who all are at different levels and have very different needs.
For the ages of my children (2, 3, 4) it is impossible and impractical to do more than two hours of structured learning a day (math, history, writing, etc...) I have scheduled our structured school time from 9 to 11, and in the afternoon we try and do something educational that's more fun and creative like nature study, science or art.
If you've checked out the curriculum we are using for this year you'll notice quite a few books on our list. Most of these are books that will be repeated in older years so I'm not concerned about them remembering every detail, I just want to expose them to the stories so they will be familiar later and more importantly get them in a routine of learning so that it will be something they always remember doing.
I prefer doing math and history first because I think they are the most difficult subjects and if I wait until they are tired it won't be pleasant. I also find that it's nice to take a break after one hour and do something fun, music time, drawing, foreign language, something that they enjoy doing, then finish off with whatever else I can fit in until they reach their limit. In the afternoon we come back to do the fun things like art and science.
Schoolwork breakdown:
Here is an example of how much time we spend on each subject during our 9 to 11 timeframe (on a good day of course!):
Math U See (15 minutes)
History of the World, while the boys play with pattern blocks (15 minutes)
Burgess Bird Book, pattern blocks (10 minutes)
50 Stories retold, pattern blocks (10 minutes)
Alphabet floor puzzle while listening to Book of Mormon scripture mastery songs (10 minutes)
Kindermusik (15 minutes)
Now we are Six (5 minutes)
Book of Virtues and copywork (15 minutes) while my 3yr old works on SmartPad ABCs
Workbox System
What to do with babies?
A few questions have been asked about what to do with younger children while you're teaching older ones. This is a struggle I'm sure all moms face and I haven't figured out the perfect solution yet (not sure there is one!) I have heard that moms of lots of children teach to the older child and let the younger ones listen in. Unfortunately my boys are not the sit-quiet-at-your-feet kind of kids... SO...I have been trying some new solutions and sometimes they work, sometimes they don't.
Here are some of the other things I try:
#1, send the youngest to his room to play (or let him roam the house and deal with the messes later)
#2, let all the boys play in the sand box, with blocks, or some other hands-on activity while I read to them
#3, go out on the grass and let the little one run while I work with the older ones
#4, wait until the little one is sleeping (which works great except when he's boycotting naptime!)
How to keep young ones motivated:
Since we've moved in with Grandma & Grandpa, the boys would love to wake up and go ride their bikes or play in the sand box first thing in the morning. After their daddy left and we finally stopped traveling every few days, I knew we needed to get back into our routine. It was a fight to get them to come sit for school rather than run around and play all morning long so I tried several things. What seems to work the best for us is to get the boys started on an activity at the table such as pattern blocks, puzzles, drawing, building blocks, etc... so their hands are busy but their minds are relatively free. Then I read to them from our books. I find my boys do SO much better when they're able to multitask and things are much more interesting this way.
And you may think they aren't listening- but they are. Today my son asked me "what's cuneiform?" We've been studying Egyptians in SOTW and last week we talked about the different ways they kept records. He might not remember what it was, but he remembered the word several days later!
The workbox system (above) which has worked wonders. And kids love stamps and stickers. I have a date stamp and when they finish any written work (the only written work at this age is math, copywork and any worksheets) I let them stamp the date on their paper and put a sticker on it. This is their favorite part about finishing and they get so excited about it.
I also try to do something fun in the afternoon if they get all their schoolwork done. Usually a trip to a museum, park, a special craft or game, computer time on Starfall More or Learning.com, and occasionally PBS Kids cartoons.
I think the most important thing to remember with small children is that it needs to be FUN. If they are bored or unhappy it's time to try something else. I do not want school to be a chore, I want it to be a way of life.
What do you do to with your little ones to prevent them from destroying the house while you're doing school?
Did you miss Part 2: Our Homeschool Schedule?
Continue to Part 4: Organizing it All
For the ages of my children (2, 3, 4) it is impossible and impractical to do more than two hours of structured learning a day (math, history, writing, etc...) I have scheduled our structured school time from 9 to 11, and in the afternoon we try and do something educational that's more fun and creative like nature study, science or art.
If you've checked out the curriculum we are using for this year you'll notice quite a few books on our list. Most of these are books that will be repeated in older years so I'm not concerned about them remembering every detail, I just want to expose them to the stories so they will be familiar later and more importantly get them in a routine of learning so that it will be something they always remember doing.
I prefer doing math and history first because I think they are the most difficult subjects and if I wait until they are tired it won't be pleasant. I also find that it's nice to take a break after one hour and do something fun, music time, drawing, foreign language, something that they enjoy doing, then finish off with whatever else I can fit in until they reach their limit. In the afternoon we come back to do the fun things like art and science.
Schoolwork breakdown:
Here is an example of how much time we spend on each subject during our 9 to 11 timeframe (on a good day of course!):
Math U See (15 minutes)
History of the World, while the boys play with pattern blocks (15 minutes)
Burgess Bird Book, pattern blocks (10 minutes)
50 Stories retold, pattern blocks (10 minutes)
Alphabet floor puzzle while listening to Book of Mormon scripture mastery songs (10 minutes)
Kindermusik (15 minutes)
Now we are Six (5 minutes)
Book of Virtues and copywork (15 minutes) while my 3yr old works on SmartPad ABCs
Workbox System
I have seen this sytem on several sites, I just happened to run across the idea on this site and thought it sounded like a fabulous idea. I planned on waiting though until my boys were older and could do it on their own. However, after moving I was really struggling to get my boys motivated to do school again and thought this might help them to visually see what they had to do before going out to play. I picked it up from Overstock.com for around $50.
My three year old helped me put it together, he put all the knobs on himself. I gave him the bottom three drawers (ideally they'd each have their own set, but anything I buy now will have move with us in a small uhaul trailer next fall!) He was so excited to open his drawers the next morning.
At night I put the things they will work on for the next day in their drawers and put them in order of when they should be done (for us math is always first and history second). Put things they will need like pencils or crayons in there too. They open each drawer and when they are finished they can move onto the next drawer. Both boys have really enjoyed this system and it is not such a struggle to get them to cooperate!
What to do with babies?
A few questions have been asked about what to do with younger children while you're teaching older ones. This is a struggle I'm sure all moms face and I haven't figured out the perfect solution yet (not sure there is one!) I have heard that moms of lots of children teach to the older child and let the younger ones listen in. Unfortunately my boys are not the sit-quiet-at-your-feet kind of kids... SO...I have been trying some new solutions and sometimes they work, sometimes they don't.
Here are some of the other things I try:
#1, send the youngest to his room to play (or let him roam the house and deal with the messes later)
#2, let all the boys play in the sand box, with blocks, or some other hands-on activity while I read to them
#3, go out on the grass and let the little one run while I work with the older ones
#4, wait until the little one is sleeping (which works great except when he's boycotting naptime!)
#5, call it a day and go to a museum or park where they can at least learn something!
How to keep young ones motivated:
The workbox system (above) which has worked wonders. And kids love stamps and stickers. I have a date stamp and when they finish any written work (the only written work at this age is math, copywork and any worksheets) I let them stamp the date on their paper and put a sticker on it. This is their favorite part about finishing and they get so excited about it.
I also try to do something fun in the afternoon if they get all their schoolwork done. Usually a trip to a museum, park, a special craft or game, computer time on Starfall More or Learning.com, and occasionally PBS Kids cartoons.
I think the most important thing to remember with small children is that it needs to be FUN. If they are bored or unhappy it's time to try something else. I do not want school to be a chore, I want it to be a way of life.
What do you do to with your little ones to prevent them from destroying the house while you're doing school?
Did you miss Part 2: Our Homeschool Schedule?
Continue to Part 4: Organizing it All
Monday, October 17, 2011
Fall!
I absolutely love this time of year! I really gained a great appreciation for the seasons when we lived in Concord, New Hampshire for almost 5 years. I never knew what green and red looked like before moving there. And the smells! You can literally smell the fresh air when you step off the airplane. Then we moved to Kentucky for the next almost 5 years. The fall colors are absolutely amazing.
I love the smells of fall- the crisp air, the pumpkin and nutmeg, I love the crunch of leaves under my boots and a scarf around my neck. I wish it could be fall all year long. Here are just a few of the yummy fall dishes I've been baking to celebrate fall:
These are better than cookies at my house, they are gone as fast as I can bake them! They can be baked into a bread loaf or into muffins (which are more fun for the kids). They are super delicious and pretty healthy too!
This fall stew is so yummy- and it's one that actually tastes better the next day when the spices have all melded together. It's a great way to use pumpkin and it also freezes really well.
One of our fall traditions is to make Halloween sugar cookies. The kids (and I) just love it. This is my favorite sugar cookie recipe. I've tried quite a few and have heard people swear by the sour cream kind, but I always come back to this one because it never fails and the texture is perfect, soft but not too crumbly. They taste similar to the store bought kind except sooo much better.
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Sunday, October 16, 2011
A day in the life, Part 2: Our homeschool schedule...
As anyone with small children knows, a daily schedule is a continual work in progress (whether you're home schooling or not)! I am constantly revising our schedule and rearranging or eliminating things that just aren't working for us. Our schedule has changed a lot more now that we are living in a new place and the boys are still trying to get used to all the changes.
The most important thing I try to do is get up before the boys so that I have time to exercise and read scriptures before the chaos begins. I find that if I don't do this I feel like I am playing "catch up" the whole day. I have also tried to limit my computer time (I don't watch tv but I do love my computer) to times when the boys are sleeping or having quiet time. This helps me to focus on them during the day rather than being sucked in editing photos or blog surfing all day long...(although I do sneak in some on my iphone from time to time!)
So...this is the schedule we *try* to go by. Some days we actually follow it and other days we just do whatever the boys feel like (which is usually riding bikes or digging in the dirt). I try to stick to the schedule for a week or two and then make changes if it's not working for us. We follow this schedule four days a week and reserve one day each week for learning at a museum (we have passes that let us get into four different museums and I love supplementing their education this way). And if you haven't seen my free homeschool daily planner yet-check it out here.
6:00 am mom read scriptures
6:30 am mom exercise or attend temple
8:00 mom and kids shower & get ready for day
8:30 breakfast
9:00 to 11:00 structured school (more details below)
11:00 snack, outside time or errands
12:30 lunch
1:00 quiet time, read stories (CM literature) until they fall asleep, then mommy computer time
2:00 school time (something fun like nature study, science, music or art)
3:00 structured playtime (computer, blocks, art, reading, puzzles, etc...)
4:00 outside time, mom dinner prep
5:30 dinner
6:00 free time or reading
7:30 clean room, jammies, brush teeth, stories (library books) and prayers
8:30 lights out (I wish it were that easy!)
We used to do our devotional around the breakfast table, but have just changed to doing it at our child-sized school table as a way to start our day. Here is the outline we follow:
*Song (we try to sing songs they are learning in primary)
*Prayer
*Scripture memory and family study
*Article of Faith (my boys have learned them by listening to the songs from lds.org)
*Poem (we are working on Robert Louis Stevenson right now)
*Foreign Language (word a day or play language cd)
*Pledge of Allegiance (the boys love to take turns waving a little flag)
I have a devotional chart laminated and I use photos of the boys to show who is in charge of which part of our devotional. I've created these in Word so you can modify them to fit your own family, click on the image to download. Just print out a picture of each of your kids and use either magnets or velcro to attach the photos to the appropriate space. Thread ribbon through the top and hang!
Structured Schooltime:
If you look at our curriculum for this year you will see an awful lot of things on it and I've actually purchased several more nature books to supplement. We do not do everything every day and sometimes not even every week. I rotate the things I feel are most important each week and if we have time for the others, I add them. These are the things we try to rotate in each week during our 9 to 11 time we read our literature books and biographies during afternoon storytime and fit the others in where we can:
Monday: Math, History of the World, Nature, Burgess Bird, Character Building + copywork, Kindermusik
Tuesday: Math, History of the World, Nature, James Herriot, Artistic Pursuits
Wednesday: Math, History of the World, Stories of Great Americans, Great Composers, Library
Thursday: Math, History of the World, Nature, Paddle to the Sea, Drawing
While my older son is doing written work (math or copywork) I work with my three year old on reading (starfall and bob books). He also has a few preschool books he works in on his own. I also try to give them each time on the new Starfall More (absolutely the best site to help kids read early!) when they get their schoolwork done and if we have time they can choose to watch a baby can read dvd (although they usually just run outside to play). More on teaching small children in the next post...
Of course, all this is on a *perfect* day which doesn't happen very often. If we can make it through math and history I consider it a success! I do struggle with my overly ambitious side wanting to teach them everything now versus letting them be kids and just play. So on those days when they just have too much energy, I just have to let go and play. Even if it's not formal or structured, they do learn a lot by playing.
Structured Playtime:
To me, structured playtime means the kids are doing something that engages creativity. I think preschools call them "centers". Some of our favorite things for our structured playtime are pattern blocks, architectural building blocks, Build it!, puzzles, learning cards and games, drawing, finger paint, playdough, reading books, Wikki Stix, More Starfall, Learning.com, and, and much more...
During structured playtime I usually play a cd that will engage their mind, either spanish, poetry, scripture mastery songs, articles of faith songs, or classical music. I also play these things when we are in the car. I am amazed at how well they are able to remember things when they hear them over and over. My three year old can recite the entire Robert Frost poem The Road Not Taken and when my oldest son was three he could recite all 13 articles of faith. It really is the easiest way for them to learn things that you want them to remember.
During this time I let them play on their own and am usually in the kitchen baking something- it gives me time to think my own thoughts (plus I can't live without fresh baked bread!) And, you may have noticed I haven't scheduled much cleaning time...I try to clean up the kitchen as soon as I finish baking, and have hired a wonderful cleaning fairy to take care of the vacuuming, bathroom cleaning and such. It saves me a lot of stress (and back pain) and gives me more time to spend with my children (I don't plan to do this forever- when my kids are older I will have them help out more- but right now I feel like my time is better spent elsewhere!).
Well, we're never perfect at getting everything done, and I'll probably overhaul my entire philosophy in a year or two...but I figure as long as we are doing the most important things like developing spirituality, giving them love and attention, the other things will come one day at a time...
What does your day look like?
Missed Part I? Click here for some of my thoughts on homeschooling
Continue to Part 3: Teaching Small Children
And don't forget! One more day to enter to win The Entitlement Trap! The winner will be announced Monday.
So...this is the schedule we *try* to go by. Some days we actually follow it and other days we just do whatever the boys feel like (which is usually riding bikes or digging in the dirt). I try to stick to the schedule for a week or two and then make changes if it's not working for us. We follow this schedule four days a week and reserve one day each week for learning at a museum (we have passes that let us get into four different museums and I love supplementing their education this way). And if you haven't seen my free homeschool daily planner yet-check it out here.
6:00 am mom read scriptures
6:30 am mom exercise or attend temple
8:00 mom and kids shower & get ready for day
8:30 breakfast
9:00 to 11:00 structured school (more details below)
11:00 snack, outside time or errands
12:30 lunch
1:00 quiet time, read stories (CM literature) until they fall asleep, then mommy computer time
2:00 school time (something fun like nature study, science, music or art)
3:00 structured playtime (computer, blocks, art, reading, puzzles, etc...)
4:00 outside time, mom dinner prep
5:30 dinner
6:00 free time or reading
7:30 clean room, jammies, brush teeth, stories (library books) and prayers
8:30 lights out (I wish it were that easy!)
*Song (we try to sing songs they are learning in primary)
*Prayer
*Scripture memory and family study
*Article of Faith (my boys have learned them by listening to the songs from lds.org)
*Poem (we are working on Robert Louis Stevenson right now)
*Foreign Language (word a day or play language cd)
*Pledge of Allegiance (the boys love to take turns waving a little flag)
I have a devotional chart laminated and I use photos of the boys to show who is in charge of which part of our devotional. I've created these in Word so you can modify them to fit your own family, click on the image to download. Just print out a picture of each of your kids and use either magnets or velcro to attach the photos to the appropriate space. Thread ribbon through the top and hang!
Structured Schooltime:
If you look at our curriculum for this year you will see an awful lot of things on it and I've actually purchased several more nature books to supplement. We do not do everything every day and sometimes not even every week. I rotate the things I feel are most important each week and if we have time for the others, I add them. These are the things we try to rotate in each week during our 9 to 11 time we read our literature books and biographies during afternoon storytime and fit the others in where we can:
Monday: Math, History of the World, Nature, Burgess Bird, Character Building + copywork, Kindermusik
Tuesday: Math, History of the World, Nature, James Herriot, Artistic Pursuits
Wednesday: Math, History of the World, Stories of Great Americans, Great Composers, Library
Thursday: Math, History of the World, Nature, Paddle to the Sea, Drawing
While my older son is doing written work (math or copywork) I work with my three year old on reading (starfall and bob books). He also has a few preschool books he works in on his own. I also try to give them each time on the new Starfall More (absolutely the best site to help kids read early!) when they get their schoolwork done and if we have time they can choose to watch a baby can read dvd (although they usually just run outside to play). More on teaching small children in the next post...
Of course, all this is on a *perfect* day which doesn't happen very often. If we can make it through math and history I consider it a success! I do struggle with my overly ambitious side wanting to teach them everything now versus letting them be kids and just play. So on those days when they just have too much energy, I just have to let go and play. Even if it's not formal or structured, they do learn a lot by playing.
Structured Playtime:
During this time I let them play on their own and am usually in the kitchen baking something- it gives me time to think my own thoughts (plus I can't live without fresh baked bread!) And, you may have noticed I haven't scheduled much cleaning time...I try to clean up the kitchen as soon as I finish baking, and have hired a wonderful cleaning fairy to take care of the vacuuming, bathroom cleaning and such. It saves me a lot of stress (and back pain) and gives me more time to spend with my children (I don't plan to do this forever- when my kids are older I will have them help out more- but right now I feel like my time is better spent elsewhere!).
Well, we're never perfect at getting everything done, and I'll probably overhaul my entire philosophy in a year or two...but I figure as long as we are doing the most important things like developing spirituality, giving them love and attention, the other things will come one day at a time...
What does your day look like?
Missed Part I? Click here for some of my thoughts on homeschooling
Continue to Part 3: Teaching Small Children
And don't forget! One more day to enter to win The Entitlement Trap! The winner will be announced Monday.
Saturday, October 15, 2011
I heart Bountiful Baskets!
My first pickup I arrived with a small box, not expecting much for $15. I walked in to the school gym where they are distributed and saw the huge round laundry baskets brimming with produce and looked back down at my small box...the lady directing people said "um...I think you're going to need a bigger box..." I didn't realize that for $15. I got TWO baskets of produce! One full of vegetables and one full of fruit. I typically pay $5 for grapes or apples alone...I just love that I can get an entire week's supply of fruits & vegetables for $15 (or $25 for organic).
The fun part is the produce is different every time, the week before included corn, limes and pomegranates. I was also pleasantly surprised at what high quality produce it is, there were no fruit flies or bad spots and the grapes are the sweetest grapes I think I've ever eaten. I also got the tortilla pack which is about 15 pounds of tortillas- plate size, small size, corn...they are fabulous. The only commitment is to help distribute the food once every six pickups. Two hours of my time every six weeks is sooo worth the savings!
They recommend that you wait to go shopping until after you've picked up your basket and then plan your meal around the vegetables provided and with the savings you can afford higher quality meats. I am making a large veggie tray and a large bowl of fruit salad (stir in a little vanilla yogurt to prevent browning & some pecans because they're delicious) to keep in the fridge for the kids to snack on during the week. So not only will my family have healthier options, but we're saving a bundle of money at the same time!
So, if you're like me and don't have access to fresh home grown produce, check out Bountiful Baskets!
And...I just have to mention that I have THE best mother in law in the world! She is amazing. I know you're going to hate me because it's very rare to have such an awesome MIL, but mine is. Just one example of how amazing she is... Thursday when I was preparing for Ethan's birthday, I tried making a cake. I've made hundreds of cakes, but for some reason I thought I could use this yummy confetti cupcake recipe and make it into- not two layer cakes, but one round cake. Well, as you can probably guess it overflowed. Making a huge mess in the oven and ruining the cake. But optimistic little me I thought I'd just scoop half into another round pan and that would fix it. Nope. Two flat multi-colored pancakes came out of there. I should have taken a picture but it was just too pathetic. So I decided he didn't need a birthday cake. We'd have another one at the end of the month for Grant's birthday and that would just have to do.
The next morning after breakfast I saw the pans sitting upside down on the cooling rack and thought I'd better take care of my mess. I lifted it up the pans and underneath were two perfectly baked yellow cakes! I have no idea how she found the time to bake them since she had to leave around 7:30 that morning, but there they sat. I found this adorable monster cake on
and set to work. I will certainly never win a contest for my decorating skills, but it made one five year old quite happy!
He had a fun birthday- we went to Thanksgiving Point's corn maze during the day and managed to only lose one of them (temporarily), and Chuck e Cheese in the evening. He saw a commercial once and kept saying he wanted to go because "it's where a kid can be a kid" so I figured I'd take him once and he'd see that it really wasn't all that fun. Wrong. He loved every minute of it, and so did the other boys. When we got home he opened his presents... Grandma & Grandpa got him some footie pajamas and I've never seen a kid get so excited! He was literally jumping up and down saying he always wished he could have some like that (he's outgrown all his and gets jealous when his little brothers are wearing them). He then announced that he thought it was time to get ready for bed.
We had to convince him to stay and see what other presents he had ;) His aunt and uncle got him a fun game- Zingo- and we spent the rest of the evening playing it. It was a pretty fun (and exhausting) day.
Friday, October 14, 2011
Five!
I can't believe my oldest son is five today! I was showing him some of the videos we made of him when he was little...I forgot how hilarious they were!
Check out the classic wall smash (you may have seen this on America's Funniest Videos) http://carianthony.blogspot.com/2008/10/ethans-2nd-birthday-television-debut.html
And him saying articles of faith at two and a half- I completely forgot how adorable his little voice was! http://carianthony.blogspot.com/2009/07/articles-of-faith.html
Check out the classic wall smash (you may have seen this on America's Funniest Videos) http://carianthony.blogspot.com/2008/10/ethans-2nd-birthday-television-debut.html
And him saying articles of faith at two and a half- I completely forgot how adorable his little voice was! http://carianthony.blogspot.com/2009/07/articles-of-faith.html
So I got this fabulous idea from
to interview your child each year and scrapbook a page about it. What better time to interview than on a birthday? Here's Ethan's five year old interview:
Tell me three words that describe you:
I have two eyes, and I have a body, and I walk.
What are your favorite foods?
Like…umm…I like cake. I like to eat Life cereal…I love cheese…
What are you afraid of?
Bats…and pirates…
What makes you happy?
Daddy does.
What are your favorite things to do?
Color, fingerpaint, ride my bike, take a bath, have my birthday.
What is your favorite thing to learn about?
Math, about telling time, caterpillars, bugs and butterflies.
What college are you going to attend someday?
BYU
What are you going to study in college?
Computers
What are some things you’re going to do when you grow up?
Get married and go to work.
What’s your favorite scripture?
Helaman 5:12
What’s your favorite poem?
Robert Frost, The road not taken
What are your favorite books?
Magic Tree House, A to Z Mysteries, Danny and the Dinosaur
Who are your hero’s?
Abraham Lincoln and Nephi
Tell me a joke:
Knock. knock. Who’s there? Police. Police who? Police turn off the lights when you leave the room.
What are your favorite animals?
Hippopotamus, Giraffe, Elephants, Parrots
What places do you want to travel to someday?
China, Mongolia, Afghanistan, and London
Thursday, October 13, 2011
The Entitlement Trap Giveaway
I absolutely LOVE this book! If I could choose my favorite parenting book it would probably be this one. The Eyre's have such great ideas about raising responsible people and emphasize the importance of starting early. I love the overall concept of this book- to allow your children to learn from their mistakes while they are young and the stakes are low, rather than when they are adults and the stakes are high.
This applies not only to financial decisions but moral, ethical and other important decisions that must be made in life. I purchased the book to learn how to teach my children good financial responsibility, but found that it offered so much more.
My children are a little young to implement the full household economy, but I have gotten so many great ideas that I can start implementing- such as being paid for doing certain tasks around the house and rewarding them for good behavior rather than just handing out an allowance.
I also love their ideas for establishing and writing down traditions in a prominent place where they become an important part of family life and the idea of keeping family stories to read to the children at bedtime. Their ideas for teaching children how to make responsible choices about drugs, sex, and life goals is invaluable. Helping children make these decisions before they are ever faced with them prevents those spontaneous bad decisions. The whole idea is to prepare your children for the things they will face in life and to do it while they are young so that they can learn how to make intelligent decisions and avoid the confusion and frustration most teens and young adults face.
Here are just a few of my favorite quotes:
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This applies not only to financial decisions but moral, ethical and other important decisions that must be made in life. I purchased the book to learn how to teach my children good financial responsibility, but found that it offered so much more.
My children are a little young to implement the full household economy, but I have gotten so many great ideas that I can start implementing- such as being paid for doing certain tasks around the house and rewarding them for good behavior rather than just handing out an allowance.
I also love their ideas for establishing and writing down traditions in a prominent place where they become an important part of family life and the idea of keeping family stories to read to the children at bedtime. Their ideas for teaching children how to make responsible choices about drugs, sex, and life goals is invaluable. Helping children make these decisions before they are ever faced with them prevents those spontaneous bad decisions. The whole idea is to prepare your children for the things they will face in life and to do it while they are young so that they can learn how to make intelligent decisions and avoid the confusion and frustration most teens and young adults face.
Here are just a few of my favorite quotes:
- "It is parents, by not saying no and by giving kids what they demand, who become the ultimate enablers. We pour unearned praise over them, protect them from criticism of teachers and coaches, give them everything from toys to automobiles, and make no connections between their freedoms and their responsibilities. We seem to be working for our kids' approval rather than their working for ours."
- "As our lives get busier...we give our kids things instead of time.
- "Entitlement really is a kid trap...it stifles children's initiative, encourages self-centeredness, and mutes their natural and healthy fear of consequences. It makes them feel like the world owes them a living and destroys the connection between effort and reward."
- "...Indulgence...[and] anti-responsibility...holds them back from their potential, from adventure, from their independence, from their creativity, from their fulfillment, and from their happiness.
I love this book so much that I am going to be sending one lucky reader a free copy of The Entitlement Trap!
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Monday, October 10, 2011
A Day in the Life...Part 1: Thoughts on Homeschooling
A few people have asked me to share a peek into a typical homeschool day with three wild boys. Rather than have a single 10-page post, I've decided to break it up into several posts.
I thought I'd start off with a little bit of my thoughts on homeschooling which have completely evolved from when I first started and which continue to change the more I learn.
I thought I'd start off with a little bit of my thoughts on homeschooling which have completely evolved from when I first started and which continue to change the more I learn.
I originally started out doing regular preschool activities with my oldest son. However, when he started reading at age three I felt I owed it to him to help him learn more. He quickly improved his reading and just a few months later had all thirteen articles of faith memorized, could locate almost all of the 50 states, knew all the planets, many facts about dinosaurs and lots of other things.
There are many stereotypes about homeschoolers and I admit I did tend to pre-judge or label homeschooling families prior to becoming one myself. I have seen it done the wrong way where parents do a disservice to their children by failing to prepare them for college and a future career, however I have also seen it done the right way with incredible and amazing results. My goal of course, is to get those incredible and amazing results. So I've been something of a homeschool scholar over the past few years, researching different methods, trying different ideas and learning all I can about the best ways to prepare my boys for college. Mind you, they're only 1, 3 and 4, but I like to plan ahead!
Just to make my position clear, I have nothing against public schools! Do I think the system is perfect? No. Do I think they work well for most people? Yes! If I could choose my perfect public school would I send my kids there? Probably... BUT we are in the military and have very little control over where we live and what kind of schools we can choose from. Not only that, but my oldest is not quite five and is reading at a 4th grade (or higher) level, doing second grade math. He is not eligible for public school until he is 6 because his birthday is mid-October and if I sent him to kindergarten in another year he would not only be bored out of his mind but would be a major troublemaker. So this was the logic I originally used when deciding to homeschool, but have since learned that there really is a spiritual aspect to homeschooling and without receiving that confirmation that this is best for my family, I would have called it quits a hundred times.
Anyway, decision made (at least for this period in time) I had to figure out how to go about schooling. At first I tried to make up my own curriculum but this took WAY too much time and planning. Next I got the "What Your ____ Grader needs to Know" books by E.D. Hirsch. They are awesome at providing an overview and even short lessons, but I still felt like I was missing something. I looked at several curriculum packaged sets but couldn't find one that offered everything I was looking for and some didn't provide the same views I have about science (I believe in evolution, meaning things evolve over time, and that the earth is much older than 6,000 years)...
I finally came across Charlotte Mason (Ambleside Online) and The Well Trained Mind. These are the two resources that provided the best foundation for me. The Well Trained Mind has so many resources that I refer to it as my homeschool "bible". I can choose the individual curiccula I want for each subject and then supplement with great literature using some of the CM recommendations.
Because my children are so young, my primary focus right now is literature and art. We read a lot. I want my boys to be familiar with the words and language used in these books so that they will always have a love and appreciation for good literature and fine arts.
I love the freedom that homeschooling provides, to help my children learn through their own experiences and not solely through books. Right now our focus is on developing a love for nature. To be able to take them places where they can learn from firsthand experiences is priceless. I look forward them studying the ancient Romans where we go on a family field trip to Rome, or study about American history by taking them on a cross-country tour to visit each site.
My primary goals in schooling my children are of course to prepare them for college and a future career (my oldest son already talks about studying computers and my three year old says he's going to be an engineer) but also to provide them with opportunities to experience a wide variety of things in life from intellectual pursuits to high adventure activities to international aid missions, and teach them to give back by helping others.
So...those are my thoughts about homeschooling...Next post will be about our daily schedule...
BTW...if you're hungry after being a trooper and reading this way-too-long post, check out this fabulous cinnamon roll recipe! It will be well worth your time...
Continue to Part Two: Our Homeschool Schedule
Did you miss my post on Why I Homeschool?
Thursday, October 6, 2011
Thanksgiving Point fun
We live really close to Thanksgiving Point so I decided to get a pass for the boys. It was well worth it. We are loving it so much! The gardens are incredibly beautiful and peaceful and the perfect place to have school on a sunny day. It's also a great reward for finishing up their school work early.
The boys love walking around the gardens and learning the different types of trees and plants.


P.S. we can get friends in for half price, if you ever want to join us!
I also get to run on this awesome trail which is right near T.P., it's so beautiful in the morning when the sun is just starting to rise...love it!
The boys love walking around the gardens and learning the different types of trees and plants.
The Noah's Ark splash park is the perfect way to cool off on a hot Utah day. Near the tower there is also this interesting contraption and the boys get such a kick out of pulling the levers and hearing the silly noises it makes and getting soaking wet as it sprays and shoots water on them.
The farm is amazing, they can ride horses, feed goats and milk a cow (how cool is that?!?) The dinosaur museum also has a fun sand/water table and a huge sand box area where they can uncover dinosaur bones. We love this place!
I also get to run on this awesome trail which is right near T.P., it's so beautiful in the morning when the sun is just starting to rise...love it!
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